Episodes

Thursday May 02, 2019
EP 23: Dr. Anabelle Bugatti on excellence in EFT
Thursday May 02, 2019
Thursday May 02, 2019
If you really want to be a superior therapist then you got to keep getting trained. And you can, and it it will show up... I really care about not just being a good therapist, but an amazing therapist.
Anabelle Bugatti first popped onto my radar through her interview with George Faller. They spent an hour dissecting the nuances of working through client anger in ways which validate and transform rather than dismiss and invalidate. It was a phenomenal interview. As I watched that and her other interviews, two things become very clear, very quickly. First, she is dedicated to becoming one of the best. Second, she's brave enough to ask the questions we all think, but rather not ask. Both are qualities I admire. In our far ranging talk we discussed:
- How attachment theory is about more than just bonding
- How she began her YouTube channel
- Her best advice for students
Find out more about her here.
Listen here on iTunes
or
check us out on PODCAST ADDICT
PS: if you enjoyed this episode check out my interview with Wesley Little. She's my favorite EFT Blogger.

Monday Apr 08, 2019
EP 22: Adam Mathews and the Digital Future of Therapy
Monday Apr 08, 2019
Monday Apr 08, 2019
"Most online schools, that are accredited, have a thousand people in their master's program getting online degrees, and so to then say that we don't do online therapy is kind of ludacris. And we don't teach how to do online therapy well, that's kinda ludacris as well."
Adam Mathews was my first supervisor. As I was grinding away as an In-Home therapist I watched him transition smoothly from the world of managed care into private practice. Since then his online presence as a therapist has only grown. He has a wonderful website, a sex therapy podcast, and generally is slowly dominating the world. So when I wondered who could speak to practice building in a way that was practical for the digital age, I knew who I had to talk to.
In this episode we talk about:
- The three keys every therapist needs to know for building their online presence
- His must read list for building a private practice
- Why he doesn't do group therapy, (and what he does instead)
Listen here on iTunes
or
check us out on PODCAST ADDICT
PS: if you enjoyed this episode check out my interview with Alexis Dubief. She's in influencer and changer maker who also talks about online presence for therapist.

Thursday Mar 07, 2019
EP 21: Alex Vaz on Becoming a Practitioner Researcher
Thursday Mar 07, 2019
Thursday Mar 07, 2019
"It's not that we're doing nothing. It's that a lot of the things we're focusing on {don't} seem to map to outcomes."
After talking with Alex I got the sense that if we weren't divided by an ocean we'd be good friends. Living in Lisbon, Portugal he does a little of everything, teaching, research, practice, etc. He first appeared on my radar after I stumbled upon his amazing youtube series for therapist: Psychotherapy Expert Talks where he interviews top therapist and researchers in the field. Not only is he super friendly and incredibly welcoming, he is also uniquely knowledgeable about therapy. In this episode we talk about
- How explanations and rationals can dramatically improve your outcomes
- The top therapist/ researcher he knows
- Why models don't matter, and you should still pick one
- and much much more
PS if you enjoyed this episode check out this episode with Scott Miller. He's another one on the frontier of the field.
Listen HERE on iTunes

Thursday Feb 14, 2019
Ep 20: Scott Miller and What it Takes To Be a Better Therapist
Thursday Feb 14, 2019
Thursday Feb 14, 2019
- His work with the founders of SFBT and why the group split up.
- How many sessions the average client comes to therapy.
- The importance of tracking outcomes
- The surprising research on which therapies are most effective
- How therapy needs to return it it's magickal roots.
If you enjoyed this check out this episode on what separates great therapists from average therapists.
If you'd like to learn more about Scott check out his website, or read his article How Psychotherapy Lost it's Magick (it will blow you away). For more on tracking your outcomes check out his books Deliberate Practice for Psychotherapist or The Cycle of Excellence, and his FREE outcome measures.
If after all this you still want more his new book Better Results comes out in September. Until then pick up a copy of Peak, its book about becoming the best, and it reads like a novel.

Thursday Jan 31, 2019
EP 19: Denise Walker, A.B.D. on In-home Therapy
Thursday Jan 31, 2019
Thursday Jan 31, 2019
"How can we educate anybody when they have so much more going on outside of these 6.5 - 7 seven hours of school?"
Denise Walker is one of the few therapist I've seen work. Her ability to connect with teenagers is something to behold. Because of this unique ability, and because of her years of experience working in client's homes, I decided to reach out to her. As you listen, pay special attention to her passion for education, especially for those forgotten and overlooked.
In this episode we talk about:
- How she started working with youth
- The challenges of in-home therapy, especially when most programs train clinicians for the private practice world
- What a typical week looks like when you're working inhome
And much more...
PS. If you enjoyed this episode check out my interview with Noelle Zamunido. She's another with a passion for the disenfranchised.
Listen HERE on iTunes
or
search Behind the Mirror on Podcast Addict (for androids)

Thursday Dec 13, 2018
EP 18: An Uncommon Case Report with Eric Greenleaf
Thursday Dec 13, 2018
Thursday Dec 13, 2018
"That's all I'm trying to do in therapy, I'm trying to get the patient to teach me how he does things well, [rather] than me to teach him what his mistakes are."
Eric Greenleaf, has plenty of awards. He's a Ph.D, the director of MHEIBA, editor for the Erickson Foundation Newsletter, and first recipient of the Milton H. Erickson Award of Scientific Excellence for Writing in Hypnosis. However, in this podcast you'll come to see him as a wonderful storyteller. I thoroughly enjoyed listening to him discuss case after case. Whenever I hear stories like this I'm always inspired by what is possible on the far side of therapy. In this episode you'll hear several case reports:
- The case of the trash compactor
- The case of the homemade postcards
- The case of the photographed desk
Find out more about Eric by visiting his website here or by checking out his youtube channel.
PS. If you enjoyed this episode check out my interview with Kershaw and Wade. They combine an Ericksonian approach with Neurofeedback.
Listen HERE on iTunes
or
search Behind the Mirror on Podcast Addict (for androids)
Eric Greenleaf, PhD, is offering case consultation to practitioners of Erickson-influenced hypnotherapy, in person or by tele-consulting.
Eric has practiced psychotherapy and hypnosis for 50 years, and taught and consulted Internationally. He currently consults to therapists in practice in Italy, Poland, Germany, France and the U.S. Contact him at training.MHEIBA@gmail.com to arrange individual or small group consults.
You may also be interested in Eric’s online trainings, for yourself, a small group of colleagues, or your own classes and workshops:
How to Do Hypnosis and Therapy the Erickson Way.
This 8-hour edited video of our live workshop with Betty Alice Erickson LPC, MFT, John Dyckman, PhD and Eric Greenleaf, PhD can be streamed in English or Spanish 8 CEs.
Dr. Greenleaf’s Fundamentals of Advanced Ericksonian Hypnotherapy can also be streamed online. Filmed live at the externship training at MRI in 2014. 38 edited hours of instruction, demonstration and practice exercises. 27 CEs for PhD, PsyD, MFT, LCSW, LPC and RN licenses. MDs, addiction treatment professionals, Feldenkrais practitioners and graduate students can also take this course. www.miltonherickson.com

Saturday Dec 01, 2018
EP 17: Deb Dana and the Science of Safety
Saturday Dec 01, 2018
Saturday Dec 01, 2018
"[I call polyvagal theory] the science of feeling safe enough to fall in love with life and take the risk of living."
I can't talk about therapy without talking about how important safety is. And I can't talk about safety without talking about polyvagal theory. And I can't talk about polyvagal theory without talking about two names, and one of those is Deb Dana. While others have outlined the steps and stages of safety, Deb's mission is to operationalize safety so that we therapists can use it in practical ways to help our clients.
In this podcast we talk about:
- How much of mental illness is simply a nervous system which lacks a sense of safety
- The ladder of response and why we can't respond when we don't feel safe
- Innate cues for safety and threat
and more.
Learn more about Deb Dana here. Also, search her books on Amazon
PS: If you enjoyed this you should check out my episode on how to become a better therapist. It's full of actionable tips.
Listen HERE on iTunes,
Here on YouTube
or
search Behind the Mirror on Podcast Addict (for androids)

Thursday Nov 15, 2018
EP 16: Stephen Gilligan and Generative Trance
Thursday Nov 15, 2018
Thursday Nov 15, 2018
"Usually with trance you think close your eyes and go away. And that's a good thing to be able to do but I think we always should regard it as a special case. Really what people are needing is how to connect with others and how to participate in life in the present moment with all of who they are."
Before there were therapist there were priest, mystics, magi and the like. Stephen Gilligan is a throwback to the best of those healing traditions. Talking with him and seeing him work is always inspiring and reminds me that what happens between people is more than words. I first got into his work because I was studying hypnosis, but he's gone far beyond traditional hypnosis now and looks at all the ways we can ease suffering through connecting with excluded parts in order to create communities strong enough to hold human suffering.
In this episode we discuss:
- the importance of tapping in to your center
- how healing comes from connecting to isolated parts
- how the future is all about community
- and much more ...
Read more about Gilligan here.
PS if you enjoyed this you should check out my episode with Douglas Flemons. I think they're cut from the same cloth.
Listen HERE on iTunes
or
search Behind the Mirror on Podcast Addict (for androids)

Wednesday Oct 31, 2018
EP 15: Laurence Hirshberg on Neurofeedback and Neuromodulation
Wednesday Oct 31, 2018
Wednesday Oct 31, 2018
"The question I had was, well I could teach people how to cope better, I could teach people how to manage that arousal better, but could I actually turn down that arousal so they weren't having to deal with so damn much."
Laurence Hirshberg is a brainach. You'll get two minutes into this conversation and his intelligence will simply smack you in the face. I love that. I love brilliant people. But he's also the kind of smart person who deeply cares. That is why Laurence was such an awesome guest to have on. Not only does he know his stuff, he also deeply believes in what he's doing and has seen the power of it to change peoples lives. In this episode you'll learn about:
- His early research with babies (and why they made him feel guilty)
- His work with autism
- Why Big Data won't change the world
- how infrared light can heal the brain
- How we've come a long way from Electro Convulsive Therapy
- The book he recommends as a study break
- The book every student should read
- and much more.
P.S. If you enjoyed this check out my interview with Sebern Fisher. She's the one who opened my eyes to the world of neurofeedback.
Listen HERE on iTunes

Thursday Oct 18, 2018
EP 14: How to Get your Baby to Sleep (and build a following) with Alexis Dubief
Thursday Oct 18, 2018
Thursday Oct 18, 2018
{No one is successful by themselves.} It takes a village. And I found my village and I'm super grateful because possibly the 100,000 people we've helped on the facebook group, that would have never have happened if it was just me. 2930
When I learned I was having a child one of my biggest fears was, "How am I going to handle everything when I'm exhausted?" Then, by chance, a friend recommended Alexis' blog Precious Little Sleep and everything changed. Make no mistake, the first few weeks were hard, but they were also more doable because I felt I had a road map, a wise guide, and a strong sense of what was normal. After I survived those first few weeks I knew I had to have Alexis on the podcast. My interview with Alexis was so wonderful. She's so full of energy and incredibly down to earth. In this episode we talk about:
- How and why she started her blog Precious Little Sleep
- Her forthcoming audio book and how it helped her overcome imposter syndrome
- The perils of vocal fry
- How her blog developed out of problems she was trying to solve for herself
- The problem with sleep schedules
- The insidious nature of "parental judgement"
- The question you have to ask when building a platform
- Her 20/80 rule of making content
- The struggles of transitioning to into parenthood
- Why she recommends Smart Passive Income and CopyBlogger for building your niche
PS If you're open to suggestions you'll want to start with this blog post of hers. It's one of my favorites. And if you enjoyed the episode check out this one with another blogger/influencer