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Master Therapist Tori Olds Demonstrates Microskills to Stop Woman in Midlife Crises from Intellectualizing

It’s way too common for therapists to feel confused and frustrated with their model. Many counselors feel like their models work for some but feel hopeless with certain clients. Worst of all is when therapists feel like a "rent-a-friend" instead of a catalyst for change.

I’m Dr. Jordan Harris, and I help therapists move from "lost" to "confident" by mastering the meta-skills of clinical excellence. My approach isn't about learning another model—it’s about knowing when and how to use the tools you already have to create deeper, more transformative emotional encounters.

In my trainings, we focus on four key pillars:

• Motivation: Working with (not against) client resistance.

• Persuasion: Engaging clients so they show up hopeful and ready.

• Experiencing: Moving past surface-level talk into deep emotional work.

• Body Language: Reading non-verbal cues for true clinical attunement.

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Analyzing a session of Tori Olds, Ph.D. (What Makes a Great Therapist? Pt. 5)

You can find my upcoming trainings here ->jordanthecounselor.com/clinical-excellence

You can learn more about Tori Olds here -> Website: toriolds.com/ Youtube: youtube.com/c/DrToriOlds 

Dr. Tori Olds Tori Olds, PHD is a licensed psychologist who has been studying experiential therapies for over twenty-five years. She specializes in the integration of experiential approaches to therapy and leads seven international training groups on this topic each week. She has a passion for translating complex psychology concepts for the public, which she does through her YouTube channel and other speaking engagements.

Jordan Harris Jordan Harris, Ph.D., LMFT-S, LPC-S, received his Doctor of Philosophy in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Louisiana Monroe. He is a licensed professional counselor and a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of Arkansas, USA. In his clinical work, he enjoys working with couples. 

Analyzing a session of Tori Olds, Ph.D. (What Makes a Great Therapist? Pt. 4)

You can find my upcoming trainings here ->jordanthecounselor.com/clinical-excellence

You can learn more about Tori Olds here -> Website: toriolds.com/ Youtube: youtube.com/c/DrToriOlds 

Dr. Tori Olds Tori Olds, PHD is a licensed psychologist who has been studying experiential therapies for over twenty-five years. She specializes in the integration of experiential approaches to therapy and leads seven international training groups on this topic each week. She has a passion for translating complex psychology concepts for the public, which she does through her YouTube channel and other speaking engagements.

Jordan Harris Jordan Harris, Ph.D., LMFT-S, LPC-S, received his Doctor of Philosophy in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Louisiana Monroe. He is a licensed professional counselor and a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of Arkansas, USA. In his clinical work, he enjoys working with couples. 

Analyzing a session of Tori Olds, Ph.D. (What Makes a Great Therapist? Pt. 3)

You can find my upcoming trainings here ->jordanthecounselor.com/clinical-excellence

You can learn more about Tori Olds here -> Website: toriolds.com/ Youtube: youtube.com/c/DrToriOlds 

Dr. Tori Olds Tori Olds, PHD is a licensed psychologist who has been studying experiential therapies for over twenty-five years. She specializes in the integration of experiential approaches to therapy and leads seven international training groups on this topic each week. She has a passion for translating complex psychology concepts for the public, which she does through her YouTube channel and other speaking engagements.

Jordan Harris Jordan Harris, Ph.D., LMFT-S, LPC-S, received his Doctor of Philosophy in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Louisiana Monroe. He is a licensed professional counselor and a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of Arkansas, USA. In his clinical work, he enjoys working with couples. 

Analyzing a session of Tori Olds, Ph.D. (What Makes a Great Therapist? Pt. 2)

You can find my upcoming trainings here ->jordanthecounselor.com/clinical-excellence

You can learn more about Tori Olds here -> Website: toriolds.com/ Youtube: youtube.com/c/DrToriOlds 

Dr. Tori Olds Tori Olds, PHD is a licensed psychologist who has been studying experiential therapies for over twenty-five years. She specializes in the integration of experiential approaches to therapy and leads seven international training groups on this topic each week. She has a passion for translating complex psychology concepts for the public, which she does through her YouTube channel and other speaking engagements.

Jordan Harris Jordan Harris, Ph.D., LMFT-S, LPC-S, received his Doctor of Philosophy in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Louisiana Monroe. He is a licensed professional counselor and a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of Arkansas, USA. In his clinical work, he enjoys working with couples. 

Analyzing a session of Tori Olds, Ph.D. (What Makes a Great Therapist? Pt. 1)

You can find my upcoming trainings here ->jordanthecounselor.com/clinical-excellence

You can learn more about Tori Olds here -> Website: toriolds.com/ Youtube: youtube.com/c/DrToriOlds 

Dr. Tori Olds Tori Olds, PHD is a licensed psychologist who has been studying experiential therapies for over twenty-five years. She specializes in the integration of experiential approaches to therapy and leads seven international training groups on this topic each week. She has a passion for translating complex psychology concepts for the public, which she does through her YouTube channel and other speaking engagements.

Jordan Harris Jordan Harris, Ph.D., LMFT-S, LPC-S, received his Doctor of Philosophy in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Louisiana Monroe. He is a licensed professional counselor and a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of Arkansas, USA. In his clinical work, he enjoys working with couples. 

The Art of Attunement: Reading Resistance and Building Rapport with Alyssa Di Bartolomeo

Ever feel like you're missing something in your sessions? The word "resistance" often gets a bad rap, but what if it's actually the key to a therapeutic breakthrough? In this episode, we sit down with researcher Alyssa Di Bartolomeo to explore "process coding"—the science of detecting the subtle cues clients give when therapy is off-track. Discover how to read these critical signals, prevent ruptures, and transform your ability to connect with clients. This is the skill that separates average therapists from master clinicians. Tune in to learn what your clients are really telling you.

 

Contact Alyssa Di Bartolomeo at alyssaad @] yorku.ca; Twitter/X @aadibartolomeo

 

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The Future of Therapy Training: Exploring Process Coding with Pioneers Dr. Henny Westra and Alyssa Di Bartolomeo

The transformative work of Dr. Henny Westra and Alyssa Di Bartolomeo in their paper, "Developing expertise in psychotherapy: The case for process coding as clinical training," represents a significant advancement in therapeutic practice.

They introduce a novel framework called "process coding" to enhance therapists’ skills by using session recordings to better understand and refine therapeutic techniques. This method addresses common issues such as therapists' misremembering interactions, enabling a more accurate and effective review and improvement of their sessions. Their approach promises to dramatically enhance therapists' ability to assist clients by offering a systematic way to analyze therapy tapes, which uncovers subtle dynamics and missed opportunities within sessions.

The importance of their work lies in providing a clear, evidence-based path toward refining therapeutic skills beyond traditional training, shifting the focus from theoretical knowledge to practical, observable outcomes. This innovative method could potentially revolutionize the way therapists train and develop their expertise, ultimately leading to more effective client interventions and outcomes.

 

Links and resources mentioned:

Why tough tactics fail and rapport gets results: Observing Rapport-Based Interpersonal Techniques (ORBIT) to generate useful information from terrorists.

This is the article summarizing the early research Laurence Alison et al conducted on police interrogations. I believe it was in this paper they discuss, “you can’t always make things better, but negative interactions can sure make things worse.”

Conditions for Intuitive Expertise: A Failure to Disagree

This is Gary Klein and Daniel Kahneman’s article on the areas where expertise can develop and the areas where it can’t. My big takeaway was areas with clear and quick feedback are the ones who produce expertise.

The wizards of deception detection - Maureen O'Sullivan and Paul Ekman

One of my favorite articles. O'Sullivan and Ekman show that most people, even trained therapists, just aren't that good at reading different facial expressions.

Meet You in McGinnis Meadows: Lessons in Attunement - Scott Miller and Brooke Mathews

Miller and Mathews discuss her path to becoming an expert therapist. I've not read this in a few years but I remember her learning a lot from her work observing horses.

Contact Dr. Henny Westra at hwestra[ at] yorku.ca

Contact Alyssa Di Bartolomeo alyssaad @] yorku.ca; Twitter/X @aadibartolomeo

 

Learn more at : Jordanthecounselor.com

 

 

 

 

Dr. Albert Cheng-Are Master’s Degrees Overrated? The Dark Secret of Teacher Quality!

A few weeks ago I ran into Dr. Albert Cheng of the University of Arkansas.

We started talking, and he mentioned he was in the department of education reform. I asked him, "What's one thing about education that you know, that you wish everyone knew?"

"Well," he said, "that teacher training, teacher certification, has no relationship to teacher quality. Just because someone has a master's degree doesn't mean they are a better teacher than someone with a bachelor's."

I was floored.

I knew this happened in the counseling field. Despite what we say, certification in various models doesn't make you a better counselor. But to see the same in education was fascinating.

So I had to have him on the podcast.

In this interview we talk all about the problems education and how to fix it.

Enjoy!

 

Links mentioned

1) Primer on Teacher Quality: https://www.educationnext.org/in-schools-teacher-quality-matters-most-coleman/

2) No-Excuses Charters: https://scholarworks.uark.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1047&context=edrepub

3) More No-Excuses Charters: https://futureofchildren.princeton.edu/sites/g/files/toruqf2411/files/resource-links/charter_schools_compiled.pdf

4) AI: https://www.educationnext.org/a-i-in-education-leap-into-new-era-machine-intelligence-carries-risks-challenges-promises/

5) Albert Cheng himself: https://edre.uark.edu/people/faculty/uid/axc070/name/Albert+A.+Cheng/

Audio Blog - The Hidden Hierarchy

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